Who has permission to tell you the truth (about yourself or the world)?
Usually we do not give this permission directly (though we can…). We typically give (or withhold) it by the quality of our relationships and the mindset with which we engage.
If a solid group of thoughtful people have a his permission, we can expect to learn a lot.
If we do not give anyone this permission (or give it only to those who think and live like us), we limit our potential intelligence.
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