As much as I think I would like to, I am unable to control all the circumstances of my life. It is simply not possible.
Same thing with the mystery of God. Trying to control the Trinity? That is a tough road.
But what is possible is order: to orient myself toward the stuff of my life such that I am able to react masterfully, faithfully, with love. This may likely mean doing less things and/or, on a given day, doing the important things first.